The Resilient Journey of Clarence E. Stowers, Sr.: A Tribute to Black Excellence

The Resilient Journey of Clarence E. Stowers, Sr.: A Tribute to Black Excellence

Black History Month is a time for us to celebrate the incredible contributions that Black individuals have made to society throughout history.

As Black History Month comes to a close, I hope that my series has been informative and inspiring.

Through highlighting the stories of influential Black individuals, we can gain a better understanding of their impact and significance. If you missed any of the previous installments, don't worry! You can find 3 Unknown Truths of Black History That Will Change Your Perspective Forever - Part 1, Celebrating the Past, Embracing the Future: The Significance of Black History Month - Part 2, and Unsung Heroes: Honoring The Legacy of 5 Unsung Heroes of Black History - Part 3 right here to catch up

From the legacy of Martin Luther King Jr. to the contributions of Black scientists and artists, these articles showcase the incredible achievements and resilience of the Black community. Let us continue to honor and celebrate these stories beyond Black History Month and work towards a more just and equitable society for all. 

As we take a moment to reflect on the legacy of those who have paved the way for us, I am proud to share the story of my father, Clarence E. Stowers, Sr. His life is a testament to the resilience, determination, and faith that have defined Black excellence throughout history.

Fleeing the Segregated South: The Beginning of a Remarkable Journey

When my father fled the segregated South at the age of 17, he was doing so to protect his brothers and himself from an angry white mob. This experience was a traumatic one, but it also served as a defining moment in his life.

He knew that he had to take action to protect himself and his loved ones, and in doing so, he set himself on a path that would lead to remarkable achievements.

After fleeing the segregated South and establishing himself in Chicago, my father worked tirelessly to build a new life for himself. He was determined to create a better future, one where he could thrive and succeed despite the adversity he had faced.

After some time in Chicago, he decided to return to Tennessee to bring Margaret Stowers, my mother back with him to Chicago.

I am proud to share the story of my father, Clarence E. Stowers, Sr. His life is a testament to the resilience, determination, and faith that have defined Black excellence throughout history.

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Together, my parents began to build a family and a community that would touch countless lives. It was in Chicago that they built the foundation for the remarkable work that they would go on to accomplish, from founding Mars Hill Baptist Church of Chicago to establishing Mars Hill School.

Through their commitment to faith, family, and community, they were able to create opportunities for others and to make a lasting impact on the world. 

My father's decision to flee the segregated South was a courageous one, and it set him on a path of resilience, determination, and faith.

He refused to let the injustices of the world define him, and he sought to create a better future for himself and his loved ones. Through his hard work and dedication, he was able to build a life that was defined by love, family, and community.

Today, my father's legacy continues to inspire me and others. His journey serves as a reminder that we can overcome even the toughest obstacles when we have faith in ourselves and a commitment to creating a better future. I am grateful to have been a witness to his remarkable journey, and I am honored to carry on his legacy.

Today, my father's legacy continues to inspire me and others. His journey serves as a reminder that we can overcome even the toughest obstacles when we have faith in ourselves and a commitment to creating a better future.

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Building a Life and a Legacy

The story of my parents is one of resilience, determination, and faith.

Together, they raised five fantastic children, instilling in us the values of family, hard work, and a commitment to creating a better world. But their impact went far beyond our family.

Together, they built Mars Hill Baptist Church of Chicago, a multi-generational, global ministry that has touched the lives of countless people. In 2023, we will be celebrating 60 years of ministry, a testament to their enduring legacy.

My father's commitment to education was another cornerstone of his work. He established Mars Hill School, which educated some of Chicago's elite students who have gone on to achieve great things.

Through his commitment to education, he sought to create opportunities for others and to break down the barriers that had held so many back. It was a reflection of his deep-rooted belief in the power of knowledge and the importance of creating a better future for all.

The journey of my parents is one that has had a profound impact on my life and the lives of countless others. It is a story of faith, family, and community, and it serves as a powerful reminder of what can be accomplished through hard work, determination, and a commitment to creating a better world.

As we celebrate their legacy, let us be inspired to carry on their work and to build a brighter future for generations to come.

My father's commitment to education was another cornerstone of his work. He established Mars Hill School, which educated some of Chicago's elite students who have gone on to achieve great things.

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Growing up, my parents were dedicated to creating opportunities for others and breaking down barriers. They established Mars Hill Anywhere and my father worked tirelessly to ensure Black people had access to housing, banking, and jobs - showing their unwavering commitment to justice and equality.

A Commitment to Justice and Equality

Throughout his life, my father was a tireless advocate for justice and equality.

His commitment to creating a more equitable society was reflected in all aspects of his work, from his efforts to establish Mars Hill Anywhere to his commitment to education.

But perhaps what I am most proud of is his unwavering dedication to ensuring that Black people had access to housing, banking, and jobs.

My father owned property, housing, and businesses to create opportunities for others and to ensure that Black people had a place to bank, live, and work. It was a reflection of his deep-rooted belief in the importance of creating a more just and equitable society, one where all individuals had the opportunity to thrive and succeed

As my father knew, the work he was doing would outlive him. He set up Clarence E. Stowers Jr. to continue his legacy, knowing that the commitment to justice and equality was something that needed to be carried on.

Today, his work continues to inspire us to create a better world, one where all individuals have the opportunity to thrive and succeed, regardless of their background or circumstances.

My father's commitment to justice and equality is a reminder of the importance of standing up for what is right and creating a more equitable society. As we celebrate his legacy, let us be inspired to carry on his work and to create a brighter future for generations to come.

An Inheritance of Black Excellence

As we celebrate Black History Month, it is important to reflect on the legacy of those who have come before us and to be inspired to create a brighter future for generations to come.

For me, that legacy is embodied in my father, who left an inheritance to his children's children. His commitment to creating a better world is a reminder of the power of determination, resilience, and faith.

My father was a champion of justice and equality, and his commitment to education, family, and community inspired countless people. His tireless efforts to break down barriers and create opportunities for others embodied the spirit of black excellence, and I am honored to carry on his legacy.

My father was a champion of justice and equality, and his commitment to education, family, and community inspired countless people. His tireless efforts to break down barriers and create opportunities for others embodied the spirit of black excellence, and I am honored to carry on his legacy.

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Final Thoughts

As we celebrate Black History Month, let us be inspired by the legacy of those who have come before us. Let us remember the struggles and the triumphs, and let us be motivated to create a better world for all individuals. Through our commitment to justice, equality, and community, we can build a brighter future for generations to come, one that embodies the spirit of black excellence that has inspired us for so long.

The story of my father, Clarence E. Stowers, Sr., is a powerful example of what can be accomplished through resilience, determination, and faith. From fleeing the segregated South to establishing a new life in Chicago, he built a remarkable legacy that continues to inspire us today.

Through his commitment to education, justice, equality, and community, my father touched countless lives and created opportunities for others. His unwavering dedication to creating a better world is a reminder of the power of determination and resilience in the face of adversity. As we celebrate his legacy, let us be inspired to carry on his work and to create a brighter future for generations to come.


Key Takeaways

  1. Resilience, determination, and faith are key to overcoming adversity and building a better future.
  2. The legacy of those who have come before us is a powerful reminder of the progress that can be made through hard work and dedication.
  3. Through our commitment to education, justice, equality, and community, we can create a brighter future for all individuals, embodying the spirit of black excellence that has inspired us for so long.
How The Cosby Show Changed My Life

How The Cosby Show Changed My Life

The Cosby Show was a significant part of my young adult years.

The purpose of this post is not to debate Bill Cosby's legacy of legal troubles but to share how his show changed my life. It impacted me in a way I didn't really understand until I got older and saw how it changed how we looked at African-Americans on TV.

It gave me hope for what life could be like as a Black man. As an adult, it has inspired me to create my own world with positivity and laughter. Today's post will focus on 2 ways this show changed my life:

  1. My view of myself.
  2. My view of others. 

The Cosby Changed My View of Myself

The Cosby Show was unlike anything that had come before on TV. It seemed to be ushering in a new era of multi-faceted television. In the 1990s, something changed, and shows with all-black casts were marketed towards all-black audiences. Black people have been on TV for years; however, they rarely appeared as people of education and means.

Shows like Good Times depicted black life as a struggle, even though most main characters were employed. Now we had The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, but Will Smith was ditching his hometown for ritzy West Philadelphia (he's from East Philly).

We had Martin Lawrence as an underachiever; UPN's Homeboys in Outer Space, featuring two black astronauts who happened to be brothers; we had Living Single. The show was full of characters with advanced degrees from well-to-do families, but it still wasn't the Cosby Show.

Even though they did not always do it well, this show showed life as a family. They showed how absurd families could be and also the things that happen in families. We remember this show for its funny moments and its sincere moments. When the entire family sang along with little Rudy singing Margie Hendricks's part, it became an instant classic. It made you realize that your own family is not as fun.

The Cosby Show was unlike anything that had come before on TV. It seemed to be ushering in a new era of multi-faceted television.

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The Cosby Show Changed My View of Others

The Huxtables were cool parents. They danced, sang, and laughed all over the place. But they also held a mock trial to catch Theo in a lie and flipped out when Vanessa got caught wearing makeup after being told not to.

The Huxtables didn't want to be their kids' best friends or let them get away with anything. The show was a step in the tradition of shows like Leave It To Beaver and The Brady Bunch, but it also had a lot to say about race relations.

When I first saw this show, I didn't think anything of it. After all, there were black families on TV before the Huxtables came along. But as time went on, and as I grew older and saw the good and the bad of black sitcoms and television in general, I came to appreciate Bill Cosby's show for what it was: a trailblazing insight into African-American life.

The Huxtables didn't want to be their kids' best friends or let them get away with anything. 

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The Cosby Show was different from other shows. People on The Cosby Show were friends and families. This made it so that people could relate to the show. It's hard to imagine families as different as those in Everybody Hates Chris or Black-ish without the Huxtables.

The Cosby Show was groundbreaking because it depicted upper-middle-class black families in a way that had never been seen before on television. This show is the reason why I wrote my book, "Finding Joy Despite Life's Hardships: A Guide to Overcoming Setbacks." 

By reading this blog post, I hope you will appreciate black people's rich history on TV. I also hope it inspires you to keep fighting against racism and discrimination in our communities, whether through your words or actions.

And finally, if any of these points resonate with you and make sense to you, please consider pre-ordering a copy of my book "Finding Joy Despite Life's Hardships: A Guide to Overcoming Setbacks." 

Thank you so much!

What TV shows impacted your life?

It's hard to imagine families as different as those in Everybody Hates Chris or Black-ish without the Huxtables.

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#PrayFirst | Day 2

#PrayFirst | Day 2

Welcome to Day 2 of our #PrayFirst Campaign!

For One Week, we will pray for One Minute every hour about One Topic as One Church to One God! Pray for the first 60 seconds of every hour and watch God bless the other 59 minutes! There is power when God’s people pray in unity. Join us as we answer Jesus’ prayer “May they be ONE” (John 17:21).

If you’d like to know more about our #PrayFirst Campaign, you can click HERE.  Also, you can read our Day One Devotional on Faith HERE.

#PrayFirst Family

God is the Foundation of Your Family

Unless the LORD builds the house, those who build it labor in vain. Unless the LORD watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain. Psalm 127:1 (ESV)

Solomon the Psalmist said that it is vain to attempt things without the Lord.  The point is that trying to lead your family independently of God is futile. However, a person who trusts in the Lord and include Him in their family’s plan will find rest. Without the Lord, all work is in vain.

The family is not an institution designed by man. It was created by God for the benefit of man, and man has been given stewardship over it. Christian family is one that lines up with biblical principles and one in which each member understands and fulfills his or her God-given role. The basic biblical family unit is comprised of one man, one woman—his spouse—and their offspring or adopted children.

When a husband, wife, and children all fulfill their God-appointed roles, then peace and harmony reign in the home (Psalm 127:2). But, if we try to have a Christian family without Christ as Head or without adhering to the biblical principles the Lord has lovingly provided for us, the home will suffer.

  1. The members of a family can teach each other about God (Deuteronomy 6:4-9)
  2. Do not let sin affect your family life (Psalm 101:2)
  3. Do not bring trouble to a family (Proverbs 11:29)
  4. Husbands and wives should love each other (Ephesians 5:21-33)
  5. Children should obey their parents (Ephesians 6:1)
  6. Church leaders must have a good family life (1 Timothy 3:4-5)
  7. Families should take care of each other (1 Timothy 5:3-5)

Pray for Your Family

Heavenly Father, Please shine your light upon my family. Give us strength to overcome all of the difficulties that we are dealing with now and protect us against any and all problems we may encounter in the future. O Lord, please bring us together as we are meant to be. May the love that binds us only grow stronger as we fulfill the destiny you have laid out for us. Grant my family forgiveness for any sins we have committed. May we also forgive one another Lord, as it is sometimes difficult to do.  In your name I pray, Amen

The Single Reason Why Vacations Are Vital

The Single Reason Why Vacations Are Vital

It’s no secret, like most executives and business owners, many pastors are workaholics and rarely take vacations. Workaholics, please take note – a vacation is a must. It’s time to mute the noise and take an annual vacation. Regardless of what others may say, it’s time to let go of your guilty feelings and VACATE.

Puerto Vallarta, Mexico 2015

Welcome to the “Guilt-Free” Zone 

I use to feel guilty about taking vacations fearing I may fall behind. Sometimes I took work with me and short-changed my family in the process. A recent study shows that 82 percent of small business owners who took a vacation were performing better at work when they got back. An added bonus is that about a third of men who take this sensible step are less likely to die of heart disease.

So, If taking vacations trouble you, I’d like to share the single most important reason taking a vacation makes you better.

Vacations Inspire Creativity

“Vacations help us change the view, which can spark an idea or kick-start creative thinking,” according to Rieva Lesonsky, CEO GrowBiz Media.
For me, the church environment is hardly the place to generate new ideas, strategies, and decision-making techniques. Ministry, like any other high-demand profession, is intense. You cannot be creative or get inspiration when you are under enormous pressure.

Change Your Scenery – Change Your World

A change of scene on a vacation can work wonders. Although you cannot switch off completely, when you relax, creativity flourishes. Your mind will start asking questions you never thought of up until now. You’ll have a clearer mind because you are no longer tired.

So, forget the old work ethic that longer hours mean higher productivity. Take a vacation instead.

You can thank me afterwards.

The Single Reason Why Vacations Are Vital

Here’s What I Told My Son Josh on His 18th Birthday

Dear Son,

Today you become a man. Becoming a man is more than reaching a milestone. It’s a process that began on that day eighteen years ago when you took your first breath and will continue until that time in the future when you take your last.

Josh graduation

Being a man is not about accomplishments, athletic ability, academic ability or pursing popularity, power, possession, or prestige. Being a man is more about character, compassion and courage.

A man has character when he is a person of integrity who can be depended on. A man has compassion when he not only cares for others, but demonstrates it by putting their best interests ahead of his own.

A man has courage when he does what is right even what it’s difficult. I believe you are a long way along this journey to becoming a man. You have learned so much already. You show so much promise. As you journey into manhood, I’d like to share my experiences and help you go further faster.

  1. Be proud of who you are. You are a Stowers and we determine our values, why they’re important, and live them out. Don’t be afraid to be an individual.  Own it!
  2. Listen more than you speak. You will learn more by paying attention to what others have to say, and people appreciate being heard.
  3. Add value to people’s lives. Look for ways to inspire and empower others. Look for simple ways to help others.
  4. Stand on your word. Doing what you say you will do is a rare thing in our world today. It is one of the easiest ways to stand apart.
  5. Be confident but stay hungry and humble. You can accomplish anything you put your mind to, so don’t doubt your abilities. On the other hand don’t think too highly of yourself.  Never get too high or too low.
  6. Keep grinding. The process of working toward a goal is often as rewarding as the achievement itself.
  7. Intelligence and wisdom are not the same. Intelligence is the ability to learn. Wisdom is using knowledge and experience to make good choices. You can be both.
  8. Never stop learning and growing. There’s a whole world to be explored beyond the classroom long after graduation.
  9. Own “IT.” Whatever life throws at you, embrace. Change, obstacles, accomplishments, difficulties, adventures, success, failure are all opportunities to grow. Enjoy the moment.
  10. Love God and people! Be a man who is known by his affections and his actions. Value your family and forge friendships that last.

These eighteen years you have been alive also happen to coincide with the best eighteen years of my life. That’s no coincidence. Your coming into this world has profoundly changed mine. No words can adequately describe my love, my pride and my hope for you. I am blessed to call you my son. And today I am also pleased to call you a man.  Happy 18th Birthday Son!  I love you man!

Your father & life coach 😀

The Single Reason Why Vacations Are Vital

A Tribute To My Wife – Happy Anniversary!

I would like to think it was easy to be married to me for 21 years but my wife’s commitment to be with me drew her into a life of many challenges. Don’t misunderstand, we’ve been blessed in many ways and we’ve had many good years together. Yet the life of a Pastor (or being married to him) is not easy. Shortly into married life, as I was still training for ministry, I became a co-pastor and we enjoyed a brief time in ministry. Then the opportunity came to transition to senior pastor in May 1999.  We are still here and Mars Hill has grown exponentially.

Marriage Pic

June 27, 1992
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