Friday's Top 5 Ways To Tell You're Good and Grown

Friday's Top 5 Ways To Tell You're Good and Grown

Have you ever noticed how circular life really is?  We start not knowing anything, and enjoy it immensely (childhood).  Eventually we think we know everything, but everyone else still thinks we don’t know anything; this causes a lot of frustration (adolescence, end of childhood).  At last we realize…no, we don’t know everything, in fact we still hardly know anything; again, we seem to enjoy this stage, in many cases a bit too much (college and professional life, the in-between to adulthood).

The legal age for adulthood is eighteen for women and twenty-one for men (never understood that).  However, we all know many enter adult well before AND after the legal age.  So, when did it occur for you?  When did you discover you were “good and grown?”

I discovered I was good and grown (an adult) when:

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Friday's Top 5 Ways To Tell You're Good and Grown

Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.

Fraternity is commonly defined by Webster as the state of being Brothers, a brotherly relationship within a student organization formed chiefly to promote friendship and welfare among the members.

Seven Jewels

The opening of the school year, 1905-1906, found at Cornell University, Ithaca, New York, a group of students distributed in the various colleges of the University, who were desirous of maintaining more intimate contacts with one another than their classroom study permitted.  They often met in groups during the Autumn of 1905 and talked of the possibilities of closer contacts among themselves.  Different ones among them took the lead in calling these meetings, which were informal in ever detail.

After several meetings, on December 4, 1906 those in attendance decided to become a fraternity and Alpha Phi Alpha was born.  It came as an evolution through trial and struggle.  It was not spontaneous, but gradual in its growth.  Alpha Phi Alpha has not always been the great fraternity that it is today.  Its founders, however, were always great men with keen vision, undaunted courage, indomitable fortitude, and unparalleled tenacity.

There were seven men who founded Alpha Phi Alpha in 1906.  Each of these men were destined to play a highly significant role in the formative years of our great fraternity.  The members of Alpha Phi Alpha have decreed that the Founders be designated as JEWELS of the Fraternity.  The Founders (Jewels) of Alpha Phi Alpha are as follows:

Jewel Henry Arthur Callis
Jewel Charles Henry Chapman
Jewel Eugene Kinckle Jones
Jewel George Biddle Kelley
Jewel Nathaniel Allison Murray
Jewel Robert Harold Ogle
Jewel Vertner Woodson Tandy

The original seven who remained steadfast to the idea of a Greek-letter Fraternity, during the months of uncertainty, did not waiver in their effforts to bring about the realization of their vision.  Therefore, I salute all the men who’ve crossed the burning sands and proudly call themselves “Alphas.”  Happy Birthday dear brothers & always remember:

Manly deeds, scholarship, & love for all mankind…

Onward & Upward – ’06

Brother Clarence E. Stowers, Jr.
Jackson State University
Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.
Delta Phi Chapter – Spring 1987
“The Naughty 9”

Friday's Top 5 Ways To Tell You're Good and Grown

If I Had to do it All Over Again…

If you had a chance to go back and time redo life, would you?  Everyone has made poor choices or done something in their past that could possibly be labeled as regrettable.  But, think about it.  The fact that you are now able to look back and realize that a mistake or mis-step occurred means you have learned a valuable lesson.  Some of my choices may have landed me in unpleasant circumstances, but experiencing these things certainly built my current character.  I wouldn’t be where I am today if it weren’t for those character-building situations.  

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Mistakes are stepping stones to an evolving life.  

If I had to live my life over again, I’d try to make more mistakes.  Why?  Mistakes give us experience which, in turn, makes us wiser.  

If you had to live your life over again what 3 things would you change?

Friday's Top 5 Ways To Tell You're Good and Grown

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Web 20
The VisualCV makes a traditional resume come alive with video,
pictures and a portfolio of your best work samples and other supporting
documents.  Informational pop-ups provide background data on the
companies you’ve worked at and the colleges you’ve attended.  You can
securely share different versions with your own network of employers,
colleagues and friends, and control who sees what.

The Curriculum vitae (CV) dates back to 1902.  The shortened form used in the United States and referred to as a resume was adopted shortly after World War 2.  Either way, it’s a document format that
has not changed in decades, even though the Internet has revolutionized
the way in which we use and share resumes.

In a practice that continues in some professions today, job candidates used to bring to a first interview a portfolio
of compelling samples of their work, along with written references,
college transcripts, and documents detailing things like personality
tests, awards and even salary details.

Employers
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housed on the Web.

VisualCV brings
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shared. 

HERE'S MY VISUAL CV